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Such patients often become too generous and gift away their treasured items or things that they just can not afford to give away. Though, later they also regret their actions.
You will have to ask for help, but do not be afraid to do it! Be careful whom you ask for help though. Well meaning friends can do a lot of harm if they are out of their depth. If you are battling with depression because of it, seek professional help, there is no shame in it! You are not going crazy; depression is something a lot of people suffer from. Ignore those that may judge you, they are not the ones dealing with a traumatic breakup! Do whatever it takes to beat it.
Having a spiritual faith to lean against, even positive thinking, can help you change your thoughts and try to see meaning and hope when you are feeling at your worst. If you are just feeling sad at times when you would normally feel sad, then faith can help. But faith alone will not work in clinical depression, bipolar depression or endogenous recurring depression.
11. Often the mania cases land up to a phase of depression. Such individuals seclude themselves from their loved ones & acquaintances and many a times become bed-ridden for days together. Their sleep, appetite, energy level, etc. everything gets deeply effected.
18. depression and crazy often develops in the adolescence or early adulthood. In some cases, individuals also show early symptoms of this disorder during their childhood. While there are some who develop the depression and crazy later in their life.
In one way we’re uncomfortable with what is too much at one time and too much good feedback – our consciences doubt the sincerity of the feedback and what this is saying at a deeper level is we doubt ourselves. We also don’t want to be pushed past our limits. What is good is sometimes too good.
And all this happens whether the relationship was a good one or not. It’s natural and it is something that you have to deal with to move on and have a better and happier life or else you will be stuck in this feeling of depression and loneliness for a long time.
Thirdly, not taking the prescribed medication is a natural disaster. She doesn’t like to take it because it takes away too much of the manic side of her personality, and that is precisely what people are drawn towards. If she doesn’t take her meds, it leads to the manic-depressive cycling again.
There are some people who will never understand depression and crazy and we must be careful about who we tell. No matter how much education there is on this disorder, these are still very personal details about yourself and others. The lack of understanding from other people can turn out to be very hurtful for the person who is bipolar.
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Getting over the idea that your boyfriend dumped you is never going to be easy but neither is it going to be impossible. There are no end of homely “there you are” type pieces of advice from people who mean well but the truth, for all that, is that you are going to have to pick yourself up, dust yourself down and get on with things. The alternative is to stay stuck in the past wallowing in a mire of self pity.
Finally, when my mom came home, I didn’t want anything to do with her. Our dad begged for a truce between us. Bitterness, anger, and hurt filled my heart. My hatred for her became apparent to everyone.
Who is sexier, the confident guy with the shaved, bald head or the one with bad posture and a comb-over? Which of these two guys has chosen to own his dwindling hair follicles and which one is ashamed? Denying your illness is a form of psychic comb-over. It says “if I pretend my heart/kidneys/bones are fine, then everything will be OK”. Believe me, no one is fooled. Least of all, you.
If you have been diagnosed by a doctor as having depression, then you need a plan to combine physical pill-taking with cognitive behavior therapy. You can’t just do one magic spell or prayer and suddenly everything is sweetness and light. You need to re-program your brain into seeing the world as it is and not as you fear it to be. The medicine can greatly help you calm down and alleviate your physical symptoms which can aggravate your faulty thought process.
Take time to think about what you want from life. Too often we get rushed into a path that we are really not interested in taking. For some people this might involve a parent pushing them into the family business. For others it might be peer pressure to drop out of school. Only you know what you really want.
If they tell you that the newspaper is talking about them or that the television is talking about them, and they are not famous, then definitely there is something wrong. When someone has depression and crazy they will feel at times that everything is about them. When they read a magazine they will really think that it is talking about them. Even if the paper is talking about pigs, they will think that the pig is supposed to represent them. They will watch television and see something happen and even if it does not have anything with what they have done, they may think that the television is talking about them.
You may have friends and family that can help out while you are trying to deal with that fact that “my boyfriend dumped me.” Do not take advantage though. It is so easy to lay too much on your family and friends. If you ask for advice, follow it or do not ask for it at all.
This is going to be a life style change for you and your loved ones. First and foremost stop drinking and taking illegal drugs if you do. This will only cause negative consequences and can make this disorder worse. Surround yourself with upbeat, positive people. They will help you and will not lead you into bad things.
When I had my episodes I did not know what was real. I saw many people when I was walking around a mall and I thought they were my friends with different faces. I thought that I always talk to the same people, but that their appearance just changes.
Joyce Meyer is my favorite author because she’s not afraid to tell people the abuse she endured and does it in a loving, educational way. My favorite poet is Edgar Allen Poe. Both are very inspirational to me. As far as AC writers, I have so many! My favorites are Rox B. (formerly known as PhoenixRox), Jack Wellman, Heather Tooley, Andrea Rowe, Michele Starkey, Jennifer Bove, and Thomas Griffin. There are so many.
Oftentimes, depression kicks in if you are experiencing the pain of losing a relationship with a loved one. If you have just experienced a break-up, the bright side is that your life will improve in time. Try not to look at past relationships as failures but rather as an opportunity to learn skills that will be helpful for your next relationship. Keep in mind that your value comes from within and not who you are with. So cheer up, the best is yet to come!
Perhaps like a drug our levels of satisfaction begin to ride on a higher plane and we get used to this new level of ‘intoxication’. When this level is adjusted again lower, then it is we really feel it.
An unwell mind will normalize eventually. She will return to her baseline and be just as in love with Jack as she always was, except now- she has this laundry list of whatever horrible things she’s said and done to him while she was severely unwell. And at this point, most of us Bipolars will be watching the ashes of yet another important thing in our lives slip through our fingers. A number of us will go silent on the matter if we don’t understand our illness very well because what can you really say? What could possibly make up for those horrible actions? “I’m sorry” is often a pale shadow compared to the wound.
People who suffer from depression and crazy tend to be very creative people as well. I am currently enrolled in college and have found that when i am manic my work tends to be better than when I feel “normal.” There are two other women that are in two of my classes that also suffer from depression and crazy and they have some of the same experiences with creativity as i do. I know that for me, when my mind is racing and i put pen to paper I can come up with some amazing work. By doing assignments or just free-writing, we are able to let go of much that is going on inside. So always remember that any creative work can be very therapeutic.
Now the end result of all this will be a better and happier you. You have changed a very bad situation into something very positive. You have found happiness again. This happiness will draw people to you and that way it will also draw that one special person to you. That person is out there, you only have to make sure you are ready for it. This is when you will draw the one that makes you smile and makes you feel like you belong.
While you’re trying to get over being dumped it may be that you have trusted family or friends who generally provide sound advice. While all this is going on remember not to lay too much on these people but when you listen to the advice they offer, remember to follow it. If you constantly complain that you don’t know what to do but don’t follow advice you’re given then people get really fed up. You will eventually reach the point, if you’re not careful, where they’ll get tired of listing to you and stop offering the good advice.
If someone tripped and snapped their leg, would you blame them for breaking their leg? If a child is born with a congenital defect, is the child to blame? Of course not. Depression is a physical illness. It needs to be treated like a physical illness. No blame is involved, nor a lack of faith in God or anything else.